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What women are silent about

What women are silent about

 

Every woman eventually experiences the onset of menopause. This is how our nature works. For some, it comes at a fairly young age (early), and for others, as most often happens, in the period from 45 to 54 years (timely), but it can also be late, the onset of which is after 55 years.

 

Early menopause is associated with many causes: from ovarian depletion to surgical operations. But no matter at what age it occurs, for most women it is associated with very severe manifestations. There is a small percentage of “lucky” people for whom menopause passes without showing itself in any way. However, other women suffer greatly from it. And it is necessary that all those who are nearby know about this and help the woman overcome this difficult period in her life. Because she experiences suffering, both physical and moral. To the point that sometimes women feel like they are dying. Although in reality this does not happen, such feelings cannot be just thrown away anywhere.

Menopause in women can be accompanied by various symptoms, including headaches, tachycardia, drowsiness, sweating, frequent “hot flashes” (when you feel hot or cold), apathy, irritability, as well as problems of an intimate nature. These are just some of the symptoms, but the full list is quite impressive. We are all different, so the manifestation of menopause in each female can be purely individual. But what these problems have in common is that changes occur in a woman’s life during this period that do not have the best effect on her health and well-being. And, as a result, she needs help and support.

Many women are embarrassed by this topic and simply remain silent about their problem, without trying to solve it. But if there are no loved ones with whom you can discuss methods of reducing the symptoms of menopause, then there are gynecologists who work to help women. They can select medications for her to make her feel better during this period, both hormonal and sedative.

Menopause is what the Almighty has predetermined for us. This condition is natural for every woman. Therefore, there is no need to be ashamed of it. And if it is mentally difficult for you to get over it, then consult a psychologist. Medicine does not stand still; every year new drugs appear in pharmacology that can cure or eliminate the painful symptoms that bother us. For those who do not like to take medicine, there are preparations that are made from plants. The choice is large, if a woman wishes to help herself. Health is something that God has entrusted to us so that we have the strength to worship Him.

Dear women, menopause is a period when we should devote more time to ourselves. This is because we need care. We must take care of the skin of our face and body more often, because this no longer happens naturally. The main thing is to understand that all these changes are a normal, natural process. And it does not pass a single woman. Everyone just goes through it differently and should take this period for granted. We have changed from the very beginning of our lives. At first, we grew and changed our height, weight, hair colour, eye colour and teeth. Now we are changing too and that is normal. We are created this way. To be born, to live and to die. And it largely depends on us how we live our lives. Will we dwell on our problems or solve them and live much more joyfully and fruitfully.

Take care of yourself and treat your body and soul with love. Almighty Allah loves us in any way we are. Therefore, we must learn to accept ourselves at any age, in any body, with any flaws. And most importantly, look for the good in everything, and you will definitely find it. Love yourself anyhow! Take care of yourselves, my beloved women! Peace and goodness to everyone!

 

Khadija Dadaeva

As-Salam correspondent

2026-06-01 (Dhul-Hijjah 1447) №6.


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