It is bad when a woman feels good without a man

It is bad when a woman feels good without a man

“It is bad when a woman feels good without a man” – such popular words and sayings one can find on the Internet: folk wisdom constantly produces them, and we read and are amazed at how accurately they can reflect reality.

In fact, it is not good if a woman is happy with her freedom from a man and she is comfortable in this position.

A man and a woman complement each other and resemble the human himself. He constitutes the quality of rationality, while she constitutes the quality of sensory perception in a relationship. Without one ‘component’ there will be no balanced and complete ‘element’. If there are no sensations and feelings, we are like robots: we know neither taste nor joy nor regret. If there is no rationality, there will be no rest for either the legs or other body parts: the “Brownian Motion” will begin without vector and meaning. A woman does not allow an individual to be soulless flesh and a man does not allow this flesh to be reckless. Negatively charged particles attract each other and, paradoxically, show a harmony of complementary qualities.

There may not be an idyll, but other constructs fail because they are artificial and are not according to the “instructions” of the Creator. The fact that it is difficult for a man to be without a woman is usually not disputed. He is like a bird without one wing: everything is miserable for him, materially and spiritually. A woman without a man is like a balloon without ballast. Some ladies may think so.

Feminism, with its uncomp-romising struggle for women’s rights and freedom, seems to have gone a little too far. Soon there will be no one left to fight with, everyone will give up. It is an illusion to consider a lady happy based on external signs, such as success at work, wealth and possession of power. Motherhood, a home and an understanding loved one nearby – is this not more and better than all of this?

Throughout history, from the very beginning of the creation of mankind, he and she have been the basis of the plot of everything that happens. Love, family, home and children are derived from these two characters. Their passions, characters and relationships give rise to the most amazing and interesting stories. We ourselves are the authors of these stories and we ourselves are the main characters. Together we experience the stages of life, together we walk the allotted path. It is sad when a person is left alone. If this is his conscious choice, then this is no less sad. If earlier “feminism” was involuntary, e.g., when a woman was left without support and all responsibility for the family fell on her shoulders, now it is a voluntary decision-making. And this is another sadness. This preference occurs for various reasons. Most likely, the main blame for such a turn lies with the man. Can disappointment in a stronger sex, a shortage of gentlemen or real strong men change a woman? It definitely can.

I remembered the words of Imam Shamil, who said that if a man is a man, then a woman will be a woman. These are not just beautiful words and in no case a pun. They were clearly spoken by the great patriot and master of his craft, a courageous warrior, a reliable, caring husband, a man with a keen understanding of people. If we are not men - responsible, faithful, capable, persistent, attentive and so on - then what doubt is there that a woman will not want to play a role that is unusual for her by nature? Do not be weak men who make women strong.