How to help a child survive the loss of a mother

How to help a child?

There is no need to try to protect children from all mentions of the deceased. On the contrary, an open conversation about what death is will help the child accept what is happening. Ask him, “Why do you think funerals are important? What would you like to know about death? What would you like to say to the one who has passes on, what would you like to ask?”

There is nothing hopeful and joyful if we walk around with an unnatural, forced smile, hiding our experiences from children. There is nothing terrible if a child sees tears of an adult.

Family plays a key role in supporting a child experiencing loss. It is important that all family members are involved in the support process and understand how to help him. Friends and classmates can also be especially important to the child. Explain to them what happened and ask them to be patient and gentle. Teachers and school psychologists should also be aware of the situation and are ready to help the child at school.

Recovering from such a tragedy is a long and difficult process. It is important to remember that there is no universal remedy for everyone. Each child needs an individual approach and support. Adults must be patient, attentive and ready to help at any time. Over time and with the right support, the child will be able to find the strength to cope with the loss and continue living. It is important that the child feels loved at every stage of this difficult path. The role of family, friends, teachers and specialists in this process is invaluable and only through joint efforts can we help the child cope with the loss and find a way to recovery.

Dzhabrail Abdulatipov

As-Salam writer

2026-07-01 (Muharram 1448) №7.

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How to help a child survive the loss of a mother